... been a long time since i came this way... now that i have decided to post a post... what will write about then ? .......... it should be by no means an ordinary post.... there should be something extraordinary, unique about this post.... hmmmmmm, what kind of a post would be extraordinary enough to make my brilliant friends, the cream of this part of the world, feel impressed ? like this my thoughts are flowing, flowing, flowing..... still no ideas, no ideas in mind fit for you guys.... .... this is how many think, including me.... how to impress others, what will he think, what will she think, will i reach the expectations of others ?...... 'expectations of others' ? is it exactly 'expectations of others' or is it what i expect others to be expecting from me ? .... it is the latter of course.... in this post so far, do you think i ever spoke about expecting any standards from you guys ? NO .... then why the hell should others expect something from me? .............. is it not more about me wanting to impress others ? ..... and why will i ever want to impress others ? ....................... that is when i see me separate from you guys......... when i dont identify myself to be a part of you, ...... a part of this incredible creation of almighty ...... when i see myself separate ....... EGO ....... that's right .... when i have ego, .... When the ego disappears ......... then i dont expect others to expect anything from me..... there are no inhibitions ,....... these inhibitions are dissipative forces......... they oppose you from moving forward.... they prevent you from being your natural best...... and this is the underlying principle of SPIRITUALITY..... believing that the whole universe is one and that you are a part of it, being able to see through barriers - caste, colour, sex, nation, .... being able to identify yourself as a part of the stupendous creation of the divine,...... how do you achieve it ? ...... through love ......... unconditional love .......... who will teach you unconditional love ? .......... haven't you seen trees ? ...... does a tree of Ben's plantation say - oh ! there comes that Don, oh! I hate the way he climbs on me and plucks my mangoes , he does it so roughly, without any consideration,... he destroys my beauty by stepping on me shiny barks .............. doesn't a mango tree give mangoes to all creatures ? is it bothered whether the organism who takes the fruit is a worm, a donkey, a monkey, a man, a woman, an indian, an american, a black, a white, an old man, an earthling or an alien ? .............. well that is unconditional love .............. Well now tell me, isn't this post impressive, extraordinary ? .... curious to know .... for that was the preliminary aim of writing this post, hehehe